8 Tips for dealing Your Child's Bad Behaviour

Don't let your Child Hit or Bite You

When parents tolerate their babies hurting them, the babies will begin to think that it is okay to do it to others. It is important to look your baby squarely in the eyes and to say in a calm, but firm voice: “No hitting.” Let her know that you are upset: “That is not allowed! I am angry at you for hitting me because it hurts.” And then help her to verbalise her feelings: “I can see you are frustrated, but it is not okay to hit Mommy.” 

Remove

If your child is lashing out at other children, remove her/him from the group temporarily for a time-out.

Don't try to reason with Her/Him

At this age children do not understand reasoning, but they do understand consequences. By disciplining your child immediately and consistently she will soon begin to realise that this will happen every time she hurts someone. 

Alternative gesture

Provide your child with an alternative gesture. For instance, say: “No hitting the dog. Stroke him, gently,” as you gently move her arm over the dog’s back. 

Reward good behaviour

Give your baby a lot of praise, smiles and hugs when she displays good behaviour like sharing a toy. 

Use her/his words

Encourage your baby to use her/his words when she is upset and teach her to ask for help. 

Avoid overcrowded play spaces

Avoid situations that may cause your baby to feel overwhelmed, such as overcrowded play spaces, malls and busy restaurants.

Supervise

Supervise your child if you know she tends to lash out at others and let other parents know as well. Parents often feel embarrassed by the fact that their child tends to bite, but if you share this with other parents they can help you to prevent it from happening during playdates.”

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